By Meghan McCarthy
Life is a cycle of ever evolving roles. These roles can be that of a child, student, teacher, spouse, parent, or friend. Regardless, norms, expectations, and stereotypes help to define them. For patients with Alzheimer’s disease or related dementias (ADRDs), their diagnosis marks a shift in roles where individuals become patients and their spouses become caregivers.
Due to cognitive and functional impairments associated with dementia, a person may have more difficulty completing a task that they used to do with ease. A key aspect to this involves shifts in gender roles between spouses and loved ones.
Women, for example, who have raised children may struggle with needing to be cared for by others. Men who have made careers as builders and electricians may have difficulty asking for help with home maintenance.
These are examples of how gender roles, and stereotypes or expectations associated with them, can compound problems associated with AD dementia. But, they can also be used positively to better understand the experience of a loved one, patient, or caregiver.
To fully support a loved one or patient after diagnosis, acknowledging a change in gender roles is key.
It starts with a conversation.